A Letter to My Son… And Every Emerging Leader Out There
Because Who We Are Matters More Than What We Do
As a coach, a father, and a human being trying to navigate this world with purpose, I’ve come to believe one truth above all others: our impact doesn’t start with what we achieve, it starts with who we are.
I wrote this letter to my son for his recent high school graduation. He’s growing into a young man I’m proud of, not because of what he’s done, but because of the values he lives by: empathy, kindness, resilience, and curiosity. These are the same qualities I work with leaders to strengthen, especially when the pressure’s on and the path ahead isn’t clear.
I’m sharing this letter not just as a father, but as a reminder to all of us: success without authenticity is empty. But when we lead with intention and stay true to who we are, we create something far more lasting.
Here’s the letter:
“Braden,
Words can’t fully express how proud I am of you.
My little man, who’s not so little anymore, you continue to amaze me with all that you accomplish and, more importantly, with the man you’ve become. Your empathy, kindness, and passion are rare and powerful gifts. The world needs more of what you bring.
You are both the example and the exception, not the norm. And because of that, some people may challenge you. Often, it’s their own fears and insecurities speaking. When that happens, stay strong. Stay resilient. Most of all, stay true to your values and who you are.
You are enough. Exactly as you are. And if someone can’t see your worth, they’re not your people. The right people will love and appreciate all of you, warts and all. And there are millions of them. You’ll find them. I promise.
When life gets hard, and it will, at times, come back to your values. Let them guide you. Follow your dreams, and pursue what lights you up. If you love what you do, it won’t feel like work. True wealth isn’t measured in money, it’s measured in joy.
Make space for reflection. Choose your path intentionally. Don’t let others’ judgments weigh you down, their opinions are not your business. What is your business is living a life that’s true to you.
Know this, above all else: I love you. I will always have your back. I will always be here for you. You are never alone.
Now go out there and make your dreams come true.
Love you always,
Dad”
Conclusion
Whether you’re a parent, a leader, or someone navigating your own journey, the message is the same: Know your values. Trust yourself. Surround yourself with the right people. And when life gets hard, come back to what matters most.
This is the work I do with leaders, teams, and professionals every day. If you're ready to lead more authentically, or help your team rise with purpose, let's talk.